It doesn’t need to sound like a job interview; keep the conversation flowing organically. You can ask them about their favorite books or TV shows, and you can ask if they’ve ever seen your favorite TV show or movie, and so on. There are countless lighthearted questions that you can ask to get to know a person better. Just remember that you don’t have to dig deep and ask personal questions right at first. You’re just getting to know this person, so you don’t want to overstep their boundaries.
You don’t want to delve into talking about ex-girlfriends or ex-partners. Not only is it awkward, but it’s also not information that you need to know upfront. It’s about living in the present. You’re getting to know about the guy that you’re interested in right now. You don’t want to focus on the past. It’s is an opportunity to explore likes and dislikes, talk about your families, and so on. Note that the more that you share about yourself, the more likely someone is to open up about themselves, so if you talk about your family, where you grew up, what you’re passionate about, what your pet peeves are, or anything else along those lines he’ll be likely to reciprocate and share information about himself. Just as there’s no need to ask about his exes, stay away from talking about your own. Talking about people that you’ve ended things with in the past might give off the message that you’re not over them, and that can kill a conversation between you and a new love interest quickly.
Y ou may have a difficult time opening up the conversation and reading a guy, but there are a ton of cute and easy ways to say hello. One of them covered above is, “Hey, how’s it going?” Another thing that you can do is ask about how a person’s downtime went. For example, you could ask, “How was your weekend?” or “Hope your day is going well! What are you up to today?” Feel free to be flirty or intermittently use emojis to add a personal touch. Open-ended questions are always good. Questions about what someone’s up to or what they did that day are superior to questions that only allow the person to give yes or no answers.
You know that expression, “A picture says a thousand words?” Remember that on Tinder – it’s important to post pictures that show who you are as well as what you look like. If you’re wearing a hat, standing far away from the camera, or covering your face in photos, he won’t be able to see what you look like. If you don’t have any photos that accurately showcase your personality right now, there’s no shame in asking a friend to have a little photoshoot with you!
When it comes to getting to know somebody new, asking the right questions is key. First of all, they will care that you want to know more about them. Asking questions is integral when you’re getting to know someone because the questions you ask are indicative of your interest in that person. The guy is paying attention to the kind of questions you ask him, and through them, he’ll be able to see if you’re interested in getting to know him as a person. Another factor to consider is you’re going to know about them before you meet up for the first time, so you’ll have something more to talk about on your first date.